Fertility psychotherapist, Jana Rupnow, interviews parents, donor conceived individuals and professionals about the challenges and dilemmas of assisted reproductive technology baby-making and the expect-able tensions between positive and negative feelings that come along the way when, instead of baby makes three; three makes baby.
Episodes
Sunday May 08, 2022
Ally’s Take on Neverending New Siblings
Sunday May 08, 2022
Sunday May 08, 2022
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Lesbian and Donor Conceived, a New Perspective
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Jana Rupnow talks to the woman behind @satricaldonorconception, a lesbian and donor conceived adult. We discussed one of her posts that caused a stir in the LGBTQ community and talk about some of the complex issues about family building using purchased donor gametes. She confronts the idea of a two parent household as being "revolutionary" and challenges new ways of looking at family building to within her community, especially to consider the needs of donor conceived people, like herself.
Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
Stacy’s Success Story
Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
Wednesday Apr 13, 2022
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Kiara Raised by Single Mom by Choice
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Kiara shares her experienced being raised by a single mom and what it was like being told about her story from the beginning. She found her donor as an adult and has a relationship with siblings conceived using the same donor. She is open and willing to share her story with others. Connect with her on social media: @kiararaeschuh
*I use the terminology the dc person wishes to use.
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
Emma, New Zealand native, embodies ”Curiosity, Perseverance and Happiness”
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
Emma, New Zealand native, embodies her bio father's motto "Curiosity, Perseverance and Happiness" as she shares her story of being donor conceived and the reason for her advocacy work.
Wednesday Feb 02, 2022
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
Peter, author of Uprooted, shares his personal story
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
Uprooted offers a personal view of the consequences of secrecy in the practice of donor conception. A prominent CEO, Peter Boni, uncovers a family secret that both validates and disrupts his life. Combing his extensive research of the early practice of donor insemination with his own genetic discoveries, Boni reveals the questions, uncertainties and confusion he faced, as well as the exhilaration of connecting with genetic kin.
Boni provides a detailed history of the practice of donor conception, walking us through the social, legal and religious climate that encouraged secrets in reproductive technology and stunted the advancement of our social narratives.
Secrets are no match for personal determination and the universal need for self-discovery, no matter what age. Boni doesn’t stop his search until his deceased parents’ secret comes to light.
Tuesday Nov 23, 2021
Tiffany Loses Three Dads, Advocates after Being Cut-off by Biological Father
Tuesday Nov 23, 2021
Tuesday Nov 23, 2021
Tiffany shares her story of paternal loss, how it has shaped her life and how it fuels her advocacy work for donor conceived people.
Sunday Nov 14, 2021
Sunday Nov 14, 2021
Freya shares her experience being raised in a two mom family, connecting with her biological father and parenting her donor conceived daughter, Birdie, with her wife.
Tuesday Oct 19, 2021
Jana‘s Reaction to Donor 9623
Tuesday Oct 19, 2021
Tuesday Oct 19, 2021
Jana's Reaction to Donor 9623
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When scores of aspiring parents turned to the fertility industry to start families, they chose a remarkable young man to be the biological father of their children. He was a music prodigy and gifted athlete who had a genius IQ, movie star looks, and perfect health.
Except it was all a lie.
In this tour de force of investigative reporting, host Dov Fox unravels the case of Donor 9623, examining the complex forces and competing agendas behind the biggest reproductive hoax of our time. The story is dark, propulsive - and in an unexpected turn - hopeful. This Audible Original exposes the billion-dollar industry that creates hundreds of thousands of babies every year, through unprecedented access to its key players - and to Donor 9623 himself.
The 8-episode series raises hard questions about what we want when we set out to have kids - and what happens when we don’t get it. It places us in the grip of life lived with crushing uncertainty. And unsettles our deepest understanding of what it means to be human.